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GREAT SEXPECTATIONS: My husband had an affair and now says he is allergic to me and can’t touch me
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Dr Kathrine McAleese2024-06-17T08:00:00
In our fortnightly column ‘Great Sexpectations’ we answer your questions on sex, faith and intimacy. Drop us an email on womanalive@premier.org.uk and ask us anything. Here, Dr Kathrine McAleese helps a woman whose is being treated very badly by her husband.
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I found out in 2018 that my husband of 22 years had been having an affair for two years with a Russian woman. He gave her the impression that he was moving in with her, while behaving normally at home.
She wrote me an A4 double sided letter to tell me and to list all the times that she was with him. She attached 12 pages of copies of their text messages to each other and then sent another letter the next day with more copies of text messages.
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