GREAT SEXPECTATIONS: My husband won’t stop watching porn and I know it’s going to break our marriage, what should I do?

In our fortnightly column ‘Great Sexpectations’ the Woman Alive panel answer your questions on sex, faith and intimacy. Drop us a confidential email on womanalive@premier.org.uk and ask us anything. Here, we answer a questions about porn - what do you do when your husband won’t stop watching it?

Dear Woman Alive,

I feel like I need help because I’m at my wit’s end. My husband watched porn before we were married and I said I wanted him to stop. He agreed and as far as I was concerned that was the end of it. But a year or so ago I saw that he’d been going on porn websites on his laptop. We had a big argument and he admitted that he’d never really stopped. I felt so hurt and betrayed and since then it’s been an ongoing battle. I’m hurt by the lies and disgusted that he can’t seem to stop. I just feel lost.

Dear Reader

This is really tough and I wish I had a simple solution for you. I try not to take sides with these dilemmas but I absolutely hate porn and think it ruins not just relationships but lives. So although I might get into trouble with my editor for saying this, I want you to know that I’m on your side.