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GREAT SEXPECTATIONS: I am a married woman but have a crush on my best friend’s husband
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Marcia Dixon MBE2025-01-13T07:00:00
In our fortnightly column ‘Great Sexpectations’ we answer your questions on sex, faith and intimacy. Drop us an email on womanalive@premier.org.uk and ask us anything. Here, Marcia Dixon responds to a reader who feels attracted to a man that is not her husband.
Dear Woman Alive,
I have been married for five years, and recently my best friend got married to a man she had been dating for a year. They moved nearby and we now go to the same church as my husband and I and hang out together as a four, quite often. I get on really well with my friend’s new husband, and we spend lots of time chatting together as we have so much in common. I realised I miss him when I don’t see him, and I feel a nervous excitement when I am about to see him. I wouldn’t ever act on anything, as I love my husband, and I hate adultery, but what do I do with these feelings? I have considered suggesting to my husband we move to a new town so we don’t see them as much, but I know he would think I was crazy as we have great jobs and currently live really close to family. My best friend just seems glad we get on so well, so I don’t think she realises my true feelings. Please help me.
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