People with eating disorders feel like the Church doesn’t care but here’s how they can step up

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Mental health campaigner Hope Virgo explains the additional challenges people with eating disorders face in the Church and how we can all do better.

I stood there staring at my reflection in the mirror, wiping the sweat off my upper lip. I splashed myself with cold water looking at my face in the reflection and it barely felt recognisable. I counted to ten and left the bathroom. The sun hit me immediately as I headed to the main tent to find the rest of the youth group. As I sat, listening to yet another message about how much God loves us and how we are made in his image, all I could think about was the last few days, months, years. How I had just before the meeting been purging in the bathroom. How I was consumed by calorie counting in my head. And as I sat there looking round others, the intense shame that I felt grew. The shame that there was something categorically wrong with me, a shame that was keeping me in this space and leaving me to suffer in silence.

This was me, Soul Survivor 2006, just a few months before being admitted to mental health services, being diagnosed with anorexia nervosa, which ended in a year long stay in a mental health hospital. While it wasn’t the church’s fault that I ended up in treatment, being in an environment where there was very little understanding of eating disorders, and no one who spoke about them meant that I stayed quiet. 

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