GREAT SEXPECTATIONS: I have fallen out of love with my husband, when is it ok to get a divorce?

In our fortnightly column ‘Great Sexpectations’ we answer your questions on sex, faith and intimacy. Drop us an email on womanalive@premier.org.uk and ask us anything. Here, we answer someone who wants to know when it is ok to get a divorce.

Dear Woman Alive

My husband and I have been married for fourteen years, we have two children who are 12 and 10. I love them, but my husband is not the man I married. He has become obsessed with work, so I hardly see him, and when he is home, everything about him annoys me. Even the way he eats his food. I have started to cringe when I see him telling stories to our friends, as I can see he is boring them. He is a good dad, and when we started dating, we had such chemistry and excitement together, but now the thought of living the rest of my life with him leaves me depressed. We are both Christians, and I know divorce is not a good thing, but when is it ok for me to leave?