GREAT SEXPECTATIONS: I feel bitter towards my dead husband

In our fortnightly column ‘Great Sexpectations’ we answer your questions on sex, faith and intimacy. Drop us an email on womanalive@premier.org.uk and ask us anything. Here, the Woman Alive team answer a wife who is angry with what she has found out about her dead husband.

Dear Woman Alive,

I feel bitter towards my dead husband, how can I move on? We were married for nearly fifty years, and he sadly died earlier this year. Since his death, it has come to light how badly he dealt with our finances, and how much he spent on rubbish - even re-mortgaging our home without telling me. He was a Christian, and I know he had his own struggles, but I feel so angry at how he has left me and our two adult children.